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Monday, September 17, 2018

Serena Williams and the US Open Meltdown


Congratulations to Naomi Osaka, the 2018 US Open Champion! I wanted to state that up front, because unfortunately, despite her amazing performance, she has been deprived in large measure of the recognition she so richly deserves for her victory. Instead of celebrating her first Grand Slam title, all our attention is being directed toward the runner-up and the umpire. And that’s just not fair.

Anyone who ever saw me play tennis as a teenager can attest that I have NO right to pass judgment on the recent outburst of Serena Williams at the US Open. I threw tantrums (and rackets) and used a lot of profanity, and yes, I’ve even smashed a racket or two, although I don’t think I ever did it on the court during an actual match. So, I understand the frustrations of the sport.

(On a personal note, I seriously mellowed with age, had a bit of success (strictly amateur!), and eventually retired after multiple wrist injuries. My payback to the sport was to teach and coach numerous players, none of whom ever displayed the kind of outbursts of which I had been guilty.)

Having said all that, Serena Williams is possibly the best tennis player of all time, and I find it sad to see a player of her caliber react so poorly on the world stage. In my opinion, she is guilty of an incredible lack of professionalism, both during the match and then afterward. Let’s start with the on-court stuff. (If you haven’t seen the highlights, go to https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nx9iT1OQMl0 for a quick recap.)

Her first violation was clear. Her own coach admitted it. The second was even more clear. That’s a racket that will never work again! And the third, in my opinion was also clear. You’ve already suffered two violations and you’re going to scream insults at the umpire and demand an apology? And then call him a thief? At some point, you have to just shut up and play. Again, I’ve been there, done that. And lost because of it. (Maybe McEnroe could lose his whole mind and still play incredible tennis, but I never could.)

Up to this point, I can’t be too hard on Serena. Losing your temper, losing control of your emotions and the match, saying and doing stupid things in the heat of the moment. Many of us have found ourselves in the same situation. Now, maybe a professional athlete should be held to a higher standard, but again, before we get too judgmental, remember “to err is human” and Serena Williams is a human being like the rest of us.

I give her a lot of credit for her words during the trophy presentation. She did her best to defuse the anger of the crowd and what she said was sincere and honest. She made every effort to show good sportsmanship and I applaud her for that. Her display of class at that point is why I am so disappointed in her comments since then.

By the next day, Serena was blaming everyone but herself and claiming to be a victim of sexism and racism. So much for the good sportsmanship! Let’s take a look at her excuses.

Even though her coach admitted he was guilty of coaching from the stands, and even though it a clear violation of the rules, we’re supposed to think the umpire was unfair, because everybody does it. Did he have to penalize her? No. Did he have every right to do so? Yes. Same with the next two violations. He’s the umpire. His job is to make those kinds of judgment calls and maintain order. You don’t want penalties, don’t break the rules. If you break the rules, don’t whine and complain if the umpire holds you accountable.

And now for the real crap. Did the umpire pick on poor Serena because she was a woman? Or because she is African-American? Our society has become so Politically Correct, the ugly appearance of these accusations was a no-brainer. If Serena herself hadn’t gone there, someone else would have, probably within days. But for the best tennis player in the world to claim she was treated unfairly because of her sex or race. Just sad.

Chair Umpire Carlos Ramos has been made a villain for no other reason than for doing his job. And doing it well. He is generally considered to be an excellent and well respected umpire. He plays by the rules. His reputation is that he is tough and doesn’t put up with players who fail to follow the rules. There is no evidence that he is biased toward women or minorities.

Serena claims that men routinely behave much worse than she did and don’t get punished. True? A recently published article shows that over the last twenty years in Grand Slam tournaments, it is the men who have been penalized (and fined) much more frequently than the women. And the numbers aren’t even close! https://www.dailymail.co.uk/sport/tennis/article-6165593/Carlos-Ramos-appears-receive-apology-Katrina.html

And racism? A quick look at Ramos’ history shows that he has consistently issued code violations and penalties (even in Grand Slam events) to many high profile players of all races, including US Open men’s champion Novak Djokovic. (Last time I looked he was male and white.) https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Carlos_Ramos_(umpire)

After 35 years in the field of education, I can tell you the weakest excuse you’ll ever get for poor behavior is when the perpetrator goes into victim mode and claims “everybody does it” or “such and such did it and didn’t get punished” or “that mean teacher is just picking on me.” It’s a poor excuse. Sometimes you just need to suck it up, admit you messed up, and apologize. Serena.

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